True friendship is perhaps the only relation that survives the trials and tribulations of time and remains unconditional. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship. < 저작권자 © 광운미디어위원회 무단전재 및 재배포금지 >
Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship.
To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure.
What the meaning of a friend? Is it someone that you usually go out with and spend the most time with specially the good time or there are some other qualities that he should have to be a true friend?
The true friend is the one who believes in you and understands you and trusts you and knows he can rely on you.
He is not ashamed to show weakness in front of you, he act natural and be himself when you are with him and can show what you really are without trying to look better in front of him, he knows you are not a complete human being, however loves you and accept you as you are, even if he did not agree to some of your actions. He also treats you with respect and dignity.
You should have a special place in his heart, even if not in front of your eyes.
He advises you when you need advice, but does not impose his thoughts and views, by letting you take your own decisions.
He always encourages you and supports you and when you turn to him asking for help he always do help you so that be able to become one of the best and most successful people without feeling jealous of your success, actually he is the true of your success.
He is the one that can make you smile in your hard moments and the times of distress by being beside you with good support.
He loves you and be close to you without your taking the freedom from you or infringes on personal privacy, your identity and personality or making you become affiliate to him, instead of that he make both of you achieve and complete each other.
He always be happy to invites you and company you without even ask you anything.
He has the courage with sensitivity to criticism you, but without the blame with good way to notify you so you be able to build yourself again and became greater.
He connects you by the way of giving and taking relationship, he does not take all your time and may not be able to given all of his time, but he should has the ability to give psychological part of his time, attention and the sense of his ideas.
He don't ever abandon you or leave you alone, despite your differences or the problem that may you have between you and has the ability to forgive.
He always cares about your problems and feels your pain.
He has the ability to go to the depths of your heart to be able to see aspects of goodness and beauty that is inside you and this is true way that can reveal the real you and he even can find out more good thing from yourself more and more.
So he is the orchard where you plant the seeds of love and affection, respect, attention, trust and sacrifice and support, communication and tolerance, we experience the sensation rich psychological and reap the fruits of true happiness in life.
- If you had a friend with these qualities be grateful for this friendship and do not waste it. Because by being with him you can have the feeling of comfort and emotional safety. It is when you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words, before keeping it forth before your friend. It is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be your side in every emotional crisis. It is when you can sleep fighting and get another morning with a better understanding. With him you will have a friendship which is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life. With him friendship is eternal.
- If you do not have a friend with such qualities you try to demonstrate these qualities with everyone around you and work with wisdom argument: “Be a friend and wish that you have a friend”